Spicing Things Up: How to Introduce Toys Into a Relationship

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Did you know 94% of survey respondents feel adult products are part of a healthy relationship? Yet only 60% of adults actually tell their partners they use sex toys.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage, family therapist, AASECT certified sex therapist and resident expert for www.AdamandEve.com, gives you the perfect advice for introducing toys into the bedroom:

“The key to introducing your partner to your toys is to spend enough time and have enough intimacy with them that the both of you have some rapport built. Finding ways to bring up the subject of using a vibrator may be difficult, but communicating your desires not only brings you more satisfaction, but can also deepen your relationship as a whole. Toys are not meant to replace anyone; they can be used expand and enrich your intimacy.

Ultimately, you know your relationship best. If your partner is someone you feel comfortable enough with to just surprise them one evening then go for it. If you’re concerned about your partner feeling replaced, perhaps shop for a toy together. You can both begin to experiment in the ways you’d like to use it.”

Here are a few toys to use when introducing toys into the relationship.

·      The A&E Vibe Therapy Petite is a smaller, more discreet vibe.

·      The Triple Play Pleasure Pump Pro can make him harder and thicker for longer.

·      Adam and Eve Couple’s Enhancer Ring is great for them to use together as it provides both of them with extra stimulation.