5 Ways to Exude Confidence in Dating

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By: Jessica Danielle Ramirez

Confidence is key to everything in life.

When you find someone who exhibits this trait, it’s often magnetic — as if the person has something you just can’t put into words. It draws you in, and it can turn the person to a 10 in a blink of an eye.

It’s known that the way you see yourself and your attitude is likely the way your man will view and treat you.

While the media may tell you to lose weight or to act a certain way on dates, this engraves a perception in your brain and can ultimately damage the spark that men find irresistible.

Here are five ways to radiate confidence when dating:

Situation 1: Your man is getting hit on by other beautiful Latinas in the same room

What to do: If you’re dating a highly attractive man, chances are women will be bound to flirt with him and find him desirable too. Before you go loca when other women approach him, act as though it doesn’t bother you. The moment he notices it bothering you, your attractiveness goes down.

Situation 2: You’ve gained a few pounds and don’t feel sexy when you two “do the deed.”

What to do: What you don’t want to do is not have sex because of a few rolls hanging over. Also, don’t mention it to him because chances are he doesn’t think about that when you two are getting it on. Embrace your curves or hit the gym, simple as that!

Situation 3: You are dating someone with a higher social status has his life together.

What to do: Know your worth. He could be professional athlete or the CEO, there is no need to bend over backward because he is the entire package. If you don’t put him on a pedestal, the more he’ll see you as an equal.

Situation 4: It’s one week since your first date and you haven’t heard from him.

What to do: It’s easy to freak out and become insecure with the date, but calm down. There are reasons why he hasn’t reached out. Instead of going over the date in your mind millions of times, reach out and see what’s up. But if you sense he isn’t interested, don’t hold on. Only give what he gives. No need to waste time on a man who isn’t excited to talk to you. After all, you’re a total catch!

Situation 5: He typically doesn’t date Latinas.

What to do: Well, you’re a Latina with a strong heritage and delicious cuisine. There is no changing take it or leave it is your motto!